Our 3rd Valentine's day together. Each one gets more impressive than the last. I love celebrating with you, and I think this year is \
our best one yet! Traveling around China with you has been a dream. Ever since I met you, you've talked about how you wanted to come \
back and visit your family. And here we are!
I enjoy how we understand each other now. We both know what makes the other happy, what gets the other upset, and we strive to maximize \
the first and minimize the second. The most important optimization problem of them all (that's a joke for the nerd in me lol).
But most of all Nina, I love how I fall in love with you more and more every day. I love it when you're cutesy, when you're goofy, and \
when you're grumpy (in the sweet way). I love how you're adventurous and outgoing, but also very soft and gentle. I love the balance \
in life that you exhibit. It's something I have always wanted in a partner. I love how you love your family, and I love how they love you \
(and hopefully me too!). I love how you're always thinking of ways to make those around you happy, and very importantly, I love the person \
you are deep down. I love how you're always learning and growing, and I love how you're always trying to be better.
Since being with you, I have felt myself becoming more and more like a man. Because the true mark of a man is when his top priority \
is to provide and protect his loved ones. What I didn't realize was how that has the side-effect \
of making me want to become even more ambitious. Even more successful. Even more healthy. Even more kind. To be honest, I used to think \
I would have to try and balance a relationship with success, where the more attention I spend on one, the less I spend on the other. You \
have made me realize that it's actually the opposite. The more I love, the harder I work. The more I care, the more I strive to be the \
best version of myself.
One of the things I love the most about our relationship, is how you support me and pick me up when I feel that I cannot be the person \
I wish to be. You encourage me to take (calculated) risks in life, and I will forever be grateful for this.
Every moment with you adds joy to my life. Happy Valentine's Day, my love. Thank you for being my favorite person in every season. \
Thank you for loving me back, and I'm excited to see where the rest of our life takes us, as we continue to grow and learn from each other, \
and we start to move onto the next chapter of our lives. 💕